Blwyddyn Newydd Dda (Happy New Year)! And a happy 2018! Hope you had a lovely Christmas, wherever you were and whoever you were with. If you read my post a couple of weeks ago about Hosting Christmas then you’ll know that Sunny’s Mum, Dad and little sister came to stay and that I was in charge of cooking Christmas Dinner for everyone, including my Mum and Dad who popped over for the day too. It was waaaaay more chilled than last year; with plenty of food, presents, drink and an epic three hour long game of Cards Against Humanity. I managed to get everything out on the table by 3pm hot and not burnt… but, I did forget to buy crackers. Oops! 🙂
Bungle wasn’t exactly sure what was going on, but he did enjoy all the wrapping paper. He vanished while we were unwrapping our presents first thing in the morning and when it was all over and we went to find him, we found him in his bed in the kitchen amongst a massive pile of shredded paper! He was more interested in the wrapping paper than his presents, which was predictable, I guess!
Sunny got me spot on and gave me this massive book full of short stories about and written by women like Angela Carter (my fave!) and Margaret Atwood. One a day will definitely help me pull me through those January blues!
Last year Sunny and I hosted Christmas for the first time. Buzzed about being in a brand new house – and finally one that was actually big enough to have people stay over – we invited everyone (and when I say ‘invited’ I mean insisted/pestered/begged everyone to come). In the weeks running up to the big day we brushed off all the “Are you sure?”s and “It’s a lot of work for you both!” and “What can I bring? How can I help?” and instead got excited about all the things we were going to do and the food we were going to serve and how we were going to make it the best Christmas ever.
And it was! On Christmas Eve we put on a massive buffet complete with a massive Gingerbread Cake I baked myself, I managed to serve up Christmas Dinner on time and hot on the plate (even though I had to borrow my brother’s oven to fit all the food in!), and late nights spent playing game after game of Cards Against Humanity had us all in stitches. But, by Boxing Day we were both exhausted; I felt like I’d been held captive in the kitchen for three days, and the pressure of herding everyone from room to room, coordinating games and keeping everyone watered and fed began to take its toll on Sunny. By Boxing Day he was in a stinking mood and I was disappearing into the downstairs loo every now and then to have a gin-soaked sob.
So then what the hell possessed us to perform an encore this year? Well, (and get ready to gag) because there was nothing better than having everyone crammed together. Plain and simple. For the first time in our relationship, Sunny and I didn’t need to split the time between my family in Cardiff and his in London. Instead, we were all together. It was cosy and fun and full of colliding traditions, as well as the start of a few new ones.
It was lovely, and I enjoyed every second – even the difficult ones. Plus, it has to be said, I’ve always been a bit of a Monica Geller when it comes to having people over (“I’m always the hostess!”). I LOVE it.
But this year – with lessons learned from last year – we’ll be keeping it simple, and giving ourselves permission to let things spill, boil over and burn if it means we can spend more time enjoying Christmas with everyone. 🙂
Lesson One: Have a Game Plan (and keep it for next year!)
One thing we did pretty well last year was to plan ahead. Ahead of time we decided exactly what we were going to be eating on Christmas Eve, Christmas Day and Boxing Day, made space for everything in the fridge, and got the house looking clean, tidy and Christmassy before everyone arrived. Knowing that we didn’t need to pop to the supermarket for milk or brussel sprouts made things so much less stressful. I used a notepad to keep track of everything, and even sat down with it before everyone arrived checking the cooking instructions on food packs and writing down timings. It was a simple, but genius idea – having a cooking game plan for Christmas Day prevented burnt turkey and soggy sprouts! Plus, I packed it away with the decorations so I’ve got something to go on this year. Handy!
Lesson Two: Be Flexible
Of course, there is such a thing as being over-prepared. Don’t be a Monica Geller! There’s no fun in having a Christmas that’s too organised – it’s stressful for you, and no fun for your guests! Some of the best moments at Christmas are the ones that are unplanned; last year Sunny and I woke up early on Boxing Day before everyone else and watched The Life of Brian together whilst scoffing a Chocolate Orange and it was perfect. Unscripted time to watch films, play games and snooze is what Christmas is all about!
Lesson Three: Let People Help! (And help themselves!)
Last year we wanted our family to have a fun and relaxing Christmas, which to us meant that they didn’t have to lift a finger or do anything, just enjoy themselves. There were times last year where I wanted everyone out of the kitchen and shut the door because I had my game face on, was in the zone and wanted everything to be John Lewis Christmas Advert perfect. I didn’t get that by doing that I was both literally and metaphorically shutting everyone out so they couldn’t help. The truth is that having a spare pair of hands to load and unload the dishwasher (I felt like was constantly opening the dish washer last year!) or peel potatoes or hoover the kitchen wouldn’t be such a a terrible thing at all.
Lesson Four: Give Yourself a Break
This year we’ve got our pup Bungle to worry about too, but, having him around will mean that three times a day one of us will have to leave “Operation Christmas” to get outside and walk him. It’s the perfect excuse to get out of the kitchen, get some fresh air and a bit of space. It’s important, I think. This year I’m going to give myself a break and take the time to chill out more and enjoy myself.
Fist bump if you’re hosting Christmas this year! I feel ya! 😉
I was going start by saying that I can’t believe that Christmas is over already – but I feel like everyone always says that. We spend so much time shopping for presents and getting this and that ready and mentally preparing ourselves and psyching ourselves up for the big day that of course it’s going to fly by. It’s only 24 hours after all.
For me this Christmas most definitely flew by; mostly because it was the first time Sunny and I hosted the big day, so I spent most of it whizzing back and forth between the kitchen checking the turkey was okay because oh my God I was not going to mess it up. Luckily my Mum was around to offer a second opinion on whether the turkey was cooked through or not, and I had plenty of hands ready to help when it came to washing all the pots and pans up. It was full-on from start to finish and a hell of a lot of work, but worth it; it was amazing having all our favourite people in one room to celebrate 🙂
On Christmas Eve we had everyone over for a huge buffet and drinks. We ate plenty, played games, listened to Christmas music and sat by the fire (…who needs a real one when you’ve got a handy app, eh?).
On Christmas morning Sunny and I opened our stockings in bed…
…And then we had two rounds of opening presents with Sunny’s family and then mine. 🙂
Sunny managed to track down a Roses de Chloe for me. It’s my favourite perfume (which is saying something as I’m fussy as hell when it comes to the stuff) and it’s been discontinued (why?!!!!). But meh, what ya gonna do? I’m just going to have to go easy on this one!
My brother and his girlfriend got me this cute panda mug from Homesense, and I bought this string of clip lights to display all the instax snaps we took over Christmas 🙂
I completely forgot to take a picture of my plate piled high with turkey and pigs in blankets – but by the time it hit table after four hours spent in and out of the kitchen I was ready and raring to scoff. Cooking Christmas Dinner isn’t hard; but getting the timings right is a bloody nightmare. I seriously overestimated how much room I had in my oven for a start so I had to borrow my brother’s oven (lucky he only lives around the corner!) and even though I thought I’d timed everything down to the second, the turkey took it’s sweet time in the end so that plan went out the window! Live and learn. 🙂
After dinner we had some drinks and played one long round of Cards Against Humanity. We all learned some horrible truths about each other – and it was hilarious. Hearing my Dad’s voice jump two octaves every time he had to read out his cards was priceless – and we laughed so hard that Sunny immediately ordered the expansion pack.
Anyway, I’ve seen my last day in the kitchen out – tonight we’re ordering a massive Indian Takeaway and braving a second round of Cards Against Humanity.
I hope you had a lovely Christmas wherever you are! I hope you spent it with your favourite people eating plenty of bad food 🙂